In the United States, “hey” is gradually taking the place of “hi” in friendly greetings—whether in person or online.
I don’t mean the “hey” of “Hey, you! Yes, you!” that we use to attract someone’s attention. We’ve always had that. This is the “hey” or “hi” we say when we recognize a friend or acquaintance coming to meet us, or when we start an email.
“Hi, Sam, how’s it going?” That sort of thing.Now it happens that this “hey” is originally a Southernism. That was the situation in the late 1960s when the Dictionary of American Regional English sent interviewers to a thousand communities around the nation, asking (among 1,846 other questions) how locals would greet somebody they knew well. Read more...